What counts as losing your virginity? What counts as sex? Is half virgin a real thing or something we made up in middle school to make ourselves seem cooler? Does fingering count towards losing your virginity? Let's discuss. 

The concept of losing your virginity is often associated with the first time engaging in sexual intercourse, which we usually define as penis-in-vagina sex. Fingering, which refers to manual stimulation of the genitals using fingers, may involve penetration and is not commonly considered to be a method of losing one's virginity in a traditional sense.

Virginity is a social and cultural construct that can vary in meaning depending on different perspectives, cultural norms, and religion. Some individuals may consider any type of sexual activity, including fingering, to be a loss of virginity, while others may have different definitions or interpretations.

Ultimately, the definition of virginity and what it means to lose it is a personal and subjective matter. It's important to have open and honest communication with your partner about your boundaries, desires, and expectations regarding sexual activities. 

So, does fingering count as losing your virginity?  The answer is:  It's up to you